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How To Attract Women

The business of how to attract women has been a topic of great interest to men practically since the dawn of time. But although the secrets of how to get a girl are passed around amongst men in anecdotal stories the real methodologies involved in how to attract women involves more scientific method than mere story telling. Attracting women is no different to any other endeavor in life. You set your sights on whatever your goal is that you wish to achieve and put the work into seeing that goal realized.

But like so many other things in life many people are happy to "go with the flow" and end up with anything that life throws their way without thinking about what they really want and putting the work in to ensure that they get it.  This weak minded thinking which leaves everything to chance is attractive to many as it involves no effort and ultimately when you don't get the woman of your dreams (or any woman) you can always say that it is just fate!  But life does not have to be like that.

Whatever your physical appearance, age or wealth you can approach women and attract them to you - you just have to know how.  Things have changed and women are no longer so dependent upon men as they were a generation ago but they certainly do not want to relinquish the upper hand in partner selection that they have held for so long. But you can be the one who is able to pick and choose your women when you discover the mental triggers that fire real feelings of basic animalistic desire in the opposite sex.

Before going on to discuss what these mental triggers are lets examine some of the conventional wisdom regarding what attracts women to men. Looking at body types, women are supposed to attracted to men with an inverted triangle shape to their torso, so broad shoulders and narrow hips are seen as most attractive.  Surprisingly women find men with longer ring fingers more attractive, as the length of the ring finger is linked to sperm count. Characteristics linked to fertility form a common theme in relation to the choice of a suitable partner.

Men who have clear, sparkling eyes suggest health and fertility, while wearing glasses can suggests physical weakness. Also women consider blue-eyed men to be more sexually mature and therefore more attractive. The confidence to establish eye contact is also considered to be an essential by men who know how to flirt with women. In fact there has been a study conducted around the topic of "how to seduce women" in which couples who had never met were asked to stare into each others' eyes for four minutes. Practically all of the participants reported an being attracted to that person afterwards.

Another interesting fact is that women find men who have a mouth which is 1.62 times the width of their nose more attractive. Many men are under the impression that in order to attract women that liberal amounts of sweet smelling aftershave are required. But, scientists have proved that the sweaty smell of a man boosts the blood flow to the part of a woman's brain which controls sex. This theory is supported up by research that demonstrated that women found unattractive men more attractive when they were secretly exposed to the chemicals that is found in the sweat of their armpits.

Interestingly how attractive a woman finds a man varies according to her menstrual cycle. When they are at the most fertile point of their cycle they prefer men with rugged type faces but when they are in the less fertile part of their cycle they find men with boyish type faces more attractive.

Tips for attracting women often include going to the gym and working out until you have developed a muscular body. The theory behind this is that women are attracted to men with a muscular upper body as it denotes strength and is throw back to the days when the man had to be the hunter and protector. A word of caution here before rushing of to the gym as studies have shown that overdeveloped legs can be seen as aggressive and intimidating.

A global study who's researchers collected data from more than 31,000 respondents from 165 countries found, perhaps unsurprisingly that women find men with money more attractive.Research has also shown that the more attractive the woman the more likely she is to find a masculine man attractive. This is thought to be due to the hard wired instinct for the woman to have beautiful children. In pregnant women there is a strong instinct to protect their unborn child from illness and they tend to find men with healthy looking faces attractive.

Many publications offering advice on "how to pick up women" will stress the importance of having a good sense of humor. Research tends to support this idea as women think that a good sense of humor tends to indicate a man who has good social skills. Many pick up artists will tell you that women are more often attracted to married men. Research again finds support for this folklore with trials showing women find a man more attractive if other women are interested in him.

Another interesting fact is to do with facial and body symmetry. In controlled tests women have shown to prefer men with symmetrical faces and this has been supported by research that has shown that men with higher body symmetry tend to be more virile. But although beards should attract women as it is indicative of high levels of testosterone this is not the case. In fact research has shown that women associate beards with men who have no self control.

When approaching women with a view to a long term relationship bear in mind height compatibility.  Research has shown that a relationship is unlikely to last if there is too great a height differential, with women preferring their man to be slightly taller with an ideal ratio of 1.09.

So far we have only discussed the academic research that demonstrates general preferences that women have for an ideal man. But what about practical advice on how to attract women?

Well there is now a resource available that condenses all the scientifically researched information on how to get a girl to like you. This self help dating information product is called "Guy Gets Girl" and includes the following topics:


Exactly what you need to do to attract beautiful women

How to seduce women

Exactly what you need to do turn women on in seconds

How to get women into bed

How to change yourself into a guy women want

Use the science of body language

Develop a magnetic personality that draws women to you

Change yourself into the man that women yearn to sleep with

Develop conversationalist techniques that women love

Find the girl you really want and then make her fall in love with you

Internet dating (an endless supply of great women)

Create your own sexual chemistry

Learn how to get women to pick you up

Learn the hidden secrets of women and use it to your  advantage


"Guy Gets Girl" is written by  award winning author Tiffany Taylor who has produced dozens of articles, several books and training courses on the subject of dating. Tiffany claims that regardless of your looks, age wealth – YOU can make beautiful women attracted to you any time you choose.
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